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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, I hear in your post that you are stretched thing, cannot pick up one more thing, and also worry that the logistics that are working well for your family now won't be possible with a move for your spouse.

Reading between the lines, are you the person who sets up all the logistics and then he executes because he is more available? Would it be possible for him to retain the logistics role, but just do less of it himself? (ie, he hires someone for pickups/child care, he figures out how to ensure the kid's therapy needs are met, etc)[/quote]

OP here. Thanks for this thought. I do set up all the logistics. I execute a fair amount too but he is the one who can reliably be at school in fifteen minutes which has real value to our family from my perspective. Part of this is probably my own issue because I had a SAHM as a kid sand really no model for how two working-parent families make it work, and honestly wish I could be the one in the more flex role.

It is a good suggestion to see if he can find the person to do pick-ups etc. He has never traditionally filled that role but there is no reason he couldn't. [/quote]

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