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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here, it was zip lining. DD is being treated for certain issues and is not "typical" in some ways. So it can be very difficult to know how to navigate day to day with her. I went with my instincts on this but am paying for it now. [/quote]

You did the right thing. Plenty of people don’t like zip lining and feel anxious and scared and would rather not, both people who do suffer from anxiety and those who not, and those who have “certain issues” and those who don’t. It’s an adventure activity that is not for everyone.

Ask DH: if you were vacationing with two other couples, and one person was anxious or afraid of zip lining and wanted to stay back, and someone else in the group said they would stay with them, what would his reaction be? Would he pay for their fees anyway and then get put out? Would he pout and ruin the rest of the trip? Or would he respect that different people want to do different things, and don’t want to do certain things, and move on with his damn day? Then ask him if he would treat other people with respect and understanding, why won’t he treat his own daughter with respect and understanding?

DH is a child. And a bratty one at that.[/quote]

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