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[quote=Anonymous]When I was in7th grade I had a teacher who was weird. He was ineffective as a teacher, he was odd, he didn't seem to like us, he got emotional easily and at time he was inappropriate. As kids all we thought was that this guy was a terrible teacher and a bit creepy. We wanted him gone as we hated being in his class. So as a class we were pretty mean to him, myself included. My only thinking was that maybe if we were mean he would leave and we could get a decent teacher. My parents were strict and NEVER taught me or modeled that being mean was the way to get something changed but at that time it just seemed to be a good strategy. They would have been disgusted if they had known what I as part of that class was saying and doing and that I contributed ideas on how else we could annoy him into leaving. Pretty much all the kids in this middle class school with educated parents were involved in bullying this teacher. It worked and he left. Never once did his mental health occur to me, I didn't even know what mental health was at the time - I just cared about not hating school and having a decent teacher. Years later I found out he had a mental break down from how we treated him. He had been going through a divorce that year and had been depressed. As an adult I am shocked and horrified by my behavior but that is because I am seeing it through the lens of an adult. As a 7th grader I saw it all through a very different lens. [/quote]
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