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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Going tit for tat against your brother makes you look selfish and weak. Tell her you need them money and want her to pay you for your services or pay someone else. Express to her you would like to continue to oversee her care, but need to focus on helping your son and securing your retirement. Leave your brother out of it. I say this from experience- my irresponsible brother is clearly the favorite. In the past when I point out the obvious, there are negative consequences for me. (Example- parents bought me a crappy old car when I turned 16; my brother got a new sports car. When I pointed out the inequity, my parents dropped me from their car insurance. I was 18. They kept my brother on until he was like 26 or so).[/quote] Yeah the pattern is to favor one child and then gaslight and lie to the other or punish them for recognizing it's unfair [/quote]
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