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[quote=Anonymous]There will always be a third party in your life/relationship -- the other parent. You will have to grit your teeth and keep the peace with her, no matter how she acts. Everything with the kid will have to be approved by her. If relations with her go south, you will never be able to experience life without her, she will always be in her kid's life (and yours as well). The little girl is 3, that's 15 guaranteed years of living a life where your choices are limited because your man has joint custody. His priority will be his child (as it should be). The fact that he "doesn't seem to think highly" of the girl's mom is a red flag, because he may lean on you to be the go-between when things get rough with her. IDK, you are young, no kids... hit the eject button. Don't give up trying to find a guy who doesn't already have kids. [/quote]
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