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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I have 2 kids, a teen and a tween.  My BIL and SIL have several kids ranging from a tween who is my kid’s bff to a young toddler.  My BIL is a nice guy, and a good father.  But he has this super annoying habit of dumping his kids on people.  When he does it to me it’s annoying, but I can decide in advance what I will do and set my boundaries and it turns out OK, but he also does it to my teenager which bothers me more.

His mother is visiting, and she has been bringing the kids to meet mine at the pool.  It has been really nice as she stays and watches the kids and brings food (something else he doesn’t do).

Both tweens have birthdays coming up and his Mom has proposed taking some or all the kids to a water park for a couple days.  I am concerned that my oldest will find himself in the water park with too many kids to safely manage.  She asked me why I was worried and I explained that it would fit with the pattern.

We saw their whole family this weekend and it was awkward.  I could tell she’d told him.  I am not sure if I should have just declined the invite and made an excuse or what.

What do people think?[/quote]

Well it sounds like you vented to the wrong person.  It was HIS mother![/quote]

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