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[quote=Anonymous]Nada for Mother’s Day, nor did DH do anything for our anniversary, which was soon after. I wallowed for a while and decided that I could either do nothing, out of some punishing resentment, and be filled with anger,  or be the bigger person and do something nice. I chose the latter, because I figured that with the former, I’d be stewing all weekend and he’d likely not notice and it was too nice of a weekend to be mad. 
 So, I made it kind of a FD weekend.  First, I made a commitment to myself that I would not  complain or nag him for one single thing. Then,  I took the kinds out early Saturday morning so he could sleep in, arrnaged to meet up at brunch at his favorite place (where I had very hot soup spilled down my back by the waitress, but that’s another story), I did naptimes while he read the paper, we both went to the park, and then I  made homemade pizza for dinner and cleaned up and we watched a movie of his choice. On Sunday,I  got the kids up and fed and dressed, got us packed up for a hike which DH loves to do, then asked him what he wanted to do after, which was go to the marina and sit out and have lunch/beers on the water. Did that, then I took the kids for a 3 hour walk/park, while he watched golf, then I came home, we did baths/bedtime together, then I made a nice dinner (fresh pasta with scallops, proscuitto and spinach, homemade caesar salad), cleaned up, and then we had sex (and yes, there was a bj too). That night he said it was the best father’s day ever, and that he realized that he’d messed up for mother’s day, and that what I wanted/needed was not a present, but the kind of weekend I gave him, with fun activities, and some time off .
So, in the end, it was win-win.  
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