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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]If you were dumped and nasty things were said to you and the AP cut off all contact and said to never try to contact you again, do you regret the affair?  Did it make you feel like a whore and/or make you think the person was lying about most everything the entire affair just to have sex?[/quote]

Yes.  But I kind of felt that way at times during the affair because he always praised his wife while I was unhappy in my marriage. I did start feeling used some times.  Things got more robotic and after time he didn’t act as ‘loving”, rather “let’s get on with it”.

It was obvious he was never going to leave her. I caught feelings.  Looking back, I do now wonder if any bit of it was ever real.  It was an ugly exit.[/quote]

If 99% of your time in person was in a bedroom rarely taken out in public and 99% of the 'meet ups' were for s*x, I think you have your answer of what you were being used for.  I wouldn't think it should come as a surprise when that novelty wore off, you got dumped.  I think it would be pretty hard to hear how great the spouse was--not sure why anyone would still have feelings if that was the message you were getting.  Or, maybe you were hoping you could change his mind, which is a fool's errand.  The cautionary tale is real.  If your marriage is unhappy fix it or get out.  Don't attempt an exit affair and act like a dishonest, Ho with no morals.  Just get your life together and sh*t or get off the pot.  Quit shopping around with other women's husbands...who are cheaters like you.[/quote]

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