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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I think you're asking the wrong question.

I don't think mean kids or mean adults have real, deep, or meaningful relationships.  Their relationships are a fear-based dynamic where the mean person is deferred to or avoided or tolerated and certainly not trusted.  There is some dynamic where other people feel stuck (usually kids feel this way because the person has social capital) or obligated (adults can feel this way if the person is a family member or spouse).  Who cares if the men person is "happy" because they are living the life they've created, which seems like a sad life.

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The adult mean girls (AMG) are not happy, are extremely neurotic and narcissistic, and need to control the narrative desperately.  Other adult humans (usually women) are the AMG "friends"/followers because they know that the AMG wrath is relentless, and the AMG storytelling about others is hyperbolic.  Consequently, people tend to stay on the AMG good side, to avoid inevitable AMG fall out - not if, but when it happens. If you watch a shrewdness of chimps, they behave in much the same primitive manner. [/quote]

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