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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Spouse confessed during Covid pandemic.  Not a lot of privacy in the house so I was able to hear some of his zoom therapy sessions (didn’t know I could hear).  I heard him tell the therapist he didn’t care for the AP at all, meant nothing.  I heard a ton of regret openly expressed and a ton of other issues/struggles, internal ones at the time.

Truthfully, if I hadn’t had the benefit of hearing that remorse (not just to me) and the true regret and gotten the total transparency- I wouldn’t have been able to rebuild trust.

Everyone is different.  But, this study does not offer much—as someone else noted:

Did these cheaters confess?
Were they caught or did spouse never find out?

I would think somebody that broke it off themselves and confessed would probably have guilt/remorse than someone serially cheating or someone never caught and “got away with it”.  Getting away with it is a biggie.

I wouldn’t take surveys by Ashley Madison customers willing to take them in the first place with a whole lot of weight.  FFS.  I’d expect better from Hopkins.  This is what they are doing there?  [/quote]

Ha ha this is classic.  You cheated on him by invading his private therapy sessions?  You two are made for each other.  [/quote]

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