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[quote=Anonymous]OP is allowed to think anything she wants and feel whatever she does. There is no shame in expressing these feeling anonymously. Do not be the thought police. Now if OP danced on the grave or wrote a hostile letter to the family about her bully that should be shamed, but OP hasn't done that. There is danger in shaming people for feelings and thoughts they don't act on. OP needs to be able to admit these normal thoughts so she can process it all. My MIL was atrocious to me and was a horrible mother to her children. Let's just say by CPS standards there was neglect, emotional and verbal abuse with an incident of physical. She died in a miserable way. We didn't publish in an obituary that she was a demon, but we certainly talked privately among ourselves (immediate family and those of us who married in) about the fact she was an angry and mean spirited person. Her neighbors shared a few stories of their experiences which were funny stories about extreme selfishness. Nobody was offended. They captured who she was and stuck to facts though they did find it amusing how entitled she could be.[/quote]
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