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[quote=Anonymous]Hi OP. I felt this way too -- if I could have just announced the baby after delivery, that would have been my preference. I didn't because it would have hurt my parents and in-laws. And, I planned to see them in person for Christmas and I was showing by then (May due date) so telling would have been unavoidable without skipping those visits. No tips except to just not tell, not post photos, etc. I agree with PP that you may want to take photos for yourself. A photo of me, DH, and baby in the OR after delivery is one of my favorites from that time. I slightly regret not getting professional newborn pics. Also, if your relatives are as nosy as mine, they may show up on your doorstep without invitation. Have a plan for that. DH took 2 weeks off, and I took 14 weeks for maternity leave. I did not need, want, or use family help during that time. I don't think you absolutely need a nurse or meal delivery in lieu of family help. [/quote]
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