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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Naw, I am with you. Never understood the puddles of tears every time the children reach a milestone. They are supposed to this. It’s a celebration, not some bittersweet thing.

But I am also not some overly sentimental person in general. So…

I mean, I will miss them. But they’ve been basically independent for three years already and these are just the next steps to full independence. Meanwhile, I am rediscovering myself and my spouse and we are embracing the empty nest life with gusto. [/quote]

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Ultimate goal is to raise your kids so they become functioning adults.  Heading to college is a part of that process.  While I miss them, I'm thrilled for the next stage of their life.  [b]I don't want a 25yo living in my basement with no guidance in life.  
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Unfortunately, that and a kid going away to college are not mutually exclusive.[/quote]

I know, but heading off to college to continue their education is a great start for setting a path so that does not happen.  Just like them getting their Drivers license and starting to date and going to the movies and activities with just friends, not parents is all part of maturing and moving towards adulthood.  I welcome them growing up and progressing in life---it's what I want for my kids, even if I know I will miss them. [/quote]

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