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[quote=Anonymous]You need to work on your unhappiness and anger and not lay it out for your kids. There is a solid middle ground between telling the kids how much you hate their father and painting it as sunshine and rainbows. I found it helpful to reframe the relationship post divorce. His primary role in your mind should be 'my children's father', everything else is secondary to that. When he comes up you can introduce him as 'so and so's dad' not 'my ex', just consciously make that the most important part of your relationship with him. Please see a therapist to work on your issues and don't put it on your children. [/quote]
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