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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Yes, they make a good living.

This is more about the parent/child relationship than anything else.  If parents have time and have great relationship with child, then probably not worth it.

[b]If parent and child don't work well together and child is not fully self motivated then a consultant can be the best thing for parents and child.[/b][/quote]

So this is why we hired one.  We were clear that we needed project management and we asked how does the consultant help to motivate kids who procrastinate and are not self-motivated.  At the time, they gave a reasonable answer.  I will say that so far they are not living up to it and we are feeling frustrated.  We're meeting with the consultant tomorrow to see what type of course correction can be made before more heavy-lifting is needed for the college apps (our kid is a junior). I do recognize that you have to work with the kid that you've got, but I offer this so other parents can go in with eyes wide open so they can ask appropriate questions and know how much they may still have to be involved.[/quote]

I think the consultant's desire to "correct" your child's course selection could be a red flag that the consultant cares more about their reputation in placing kids into top schools than about your child's interests or mental health.

We were in your position two years ago. We wanted time management and essay help. We selected someone with a lot of experienced supposedly who came with recommendations from other parents. The consultant interviewed well and claimed to understand what colleges were doing given the pandemic.

What we got was someone who cared only about their own "stats" for getting students into top schools. The consultant told our child not to pursue her chosen major and pick something else and to sign up for extracurriculars that didn't interest them so she was more likely to get into a top school. Our child was pushed to take an AP class in an area that they don't like and to cut out a class in an area they love. There was zero concern about our child's interests or wishes or even our child's mental health.

The teen years are hard enough without trying to make a child into something they aren't. As long as they meet graduation requirements, let your child take classes they want to take -- not what some consultant believes will make them look good to colleges. The consultant isn't the one taking those classes or going to that college.

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