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[quote=Anonymous]Many things with our parents we have to let go until and unless (or maybe never) we are in their positions. Remember being an anxious and rude teen? Now, some of us have rude teenagers. We understand it now (perhaps now we understand both sides of it.) We can witness the attitude, wish it were different, explain our expectations, and ALSO see them for who they are and what they cannot help, see what they perhaps are capable of improving on, see where they will not change until they are in their 20s. We don’t have that full perspective with our parents yet. Yes some of them are jerks. Remember our grandparents’ generation. Maybe our grandparents would be worse! That’s where our parents came from. I think most of our moms and dads are trying to change, even if it’s too late for the stuff that happened a decade ago. Have mercy on others, and they will have mercy when we make mistakes.[/quote]
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