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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Also I have worked much more than 5 years, but only in the last 5-6 would I consider it my “career”. But most of the money I made in my 20s and early 30s went to paying off students loans and into property/assets where we lost most of what we had in 2008 financial/real estate disaster and then trying to catch up after that. I was only a FT SAHM for a total of about 5 years, but it obviously impacted my ability to have a career, as did my undiagnosed depression and anxiety.[/quote] Okay? For 90% of us, yeah 20s was about paying for student loans, and basically every Xeniel bears scars from the 2008 crisis. So you didn’t have a desk job before you SAH, why not go into that field? No idea why you are at your desk 9 hours — are you days processing? You don’t walk to meetings or go walk around office while in a call? It does sound like your depression is mismanaged; i have family with major depression and the onerous nature of having to work grates them too - to the point they are on disability and don’t work. They too had an easy desk job, steady hours, and no worry of being fired. But the gloom of knowing they had to get up every morning, and settle at their desk to work filled them with suicidal dread. So if you are reaching that point, maybe see if you can live off disability?[/quote]
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