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[quote=Anonymous]My marriage survived a co-worker infidelity. I wasn’t sure it would, but I was willing to try. We spent thousands of dollars in therapy. DH had a lot of issues to resolve (and our marriage was far from perfect). He did the work/we did the work. We also committed to regular date nights and “open” phones/laptops meaning we could check each others any time. For a long time it feel like work/going through the motions, but then at some point, it got easier. It didn’t feel like work, we looked forward to date night and spending time together. This happened 7 years into the marriage and we just celebrated 20 years. We are much closer, having done all that work with a therapist. We still have the open phones/laptop policy but I don’t feel the urge to check and haven’t in a very long time. Just throwing it out there to say, it’s possible for a marriage to survive. [/quote]
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