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[quote=Anonymous]My first husband was a decent guy, but immature, irresponsible, emotionally stunted, and a college dropout who had a stable but not high paying career. We had an amicable divorce when I realized that we had grown apart, and I spent a few years alone trying to figure out who I was. I went to a lot of therapy and learned what a healthy relationship looks like (I didn’t come from a great family) and how to value myself. After a few years of self improvement, which included finding success in my career, taking care of my health, and nurturing my hobbies and friendships, I met my current husband. He is an amazing person - good looking, kind, loving, funny, incredibly smart and successful. Part of it was luck, part of it was becoming the kind of person I wanted to be with; if you want someone who is emotionally mature, financially successful, takes care of themselves physically, and a fun person to be around, you should be all of those things as well! I don’t think I would have gotten there if I hadn’t spent a lot of time working on myself first. [/quote]

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