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[quote=Anonymous]I'd drop the guilt and focus on managing things so that you aren't miserable. People are varied, and so are relationships. There can be some tug and pull, but mainly you want to make sure you are taken care of. If you have been trying "so hard" to keep them happy, drop the rope a bit. Or pass that off to your DH a bit more and take a back seat on visits. Be there, be polite, but you can also down shift to just "being present". I did this a long time ago with my in-laws and it's helped tremendously. They probably think I am a bit disengaged because, well, I AM.[/quote]
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