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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I feel like people often misinterpret what I say and do, and then don’t listen when I try to explain.

[b]Often it seems like they read a lot into my words/actions and refuse to take them at face value, and I don’t understand why.[/b]

Am tired of explaining myself (and being disregarded anyway). Every time this happens makes me want to just withdraw and avoid people because it’s so draining and frustrating.[/quote]
You might not present as sincere.

At a certain point if something is always happening to you, you have to change your behavior. [/quote]

Many times it is deceptive people that interpret others as insincere/fake/deceptive b/c that is how they operate and assume other do as well. As a previous poster said it'e their projection on to you.[/quote]
Yea not likely in this case since OP is saying everyone doesn’t understand her. When everyone doesn’t understand you then you are the problem. [/quote]

That’s not true at all. If you lived in Soviet Russia and tried to speak out about the brutality then you were the righteous person, not the many neighbors that reported you to the authorities.[/quote]
Great analogy PP. I’m sure that’s exactly what is happening to the OP.  :roll:

Your hampering her growth by not having her examine what the issue is and fix it. That is what OP asked.[/quote]

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