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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I’ve read this many times on DCUM, but it is very true and bears repeating: You don’t have in-law problems, you have husband/wife problems. In other words, you and spouse’s first loyalty is to each other and you present united front against the in-laws on both sides. This is not to say that it is an antagonistic relationship, just that you are a family and make decisions that work best for your family. [/quote] This. They are a new family and that's their first loyalty. So many of the complaints boil down to one spouse or one set of in laws thinking that the primary loyalty should remain with the parents [/quote] +1. And it's not just his parents. It's you and your DH. You can't have healthy boundaries with in-laws and poor boundaries with your parents and then think it's all fine. You'll have issues. [/quote]
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