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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]She will relive everything she did (and is still doing) to you shortly when. She meets God. If it's painful, go no contact. Why in the world would you even consider taking this money (as if you would get it). Take care of your own children, heal, move on.[/quote]

If I did not have a SN child I would not consider it, in all honesty. Talk of setting up a SN trust has been a recent carrot dangled, I know it will never happen. I have provided care, hired help, set up systems, kind of carried out her wishes, etc because I felt that it was the right thing to do, not because I expected any reward and because she had become so frail. Now she is doing much better but instead of that being happy, with the increased energy she is making everyone even more miserable.

Thank you for your advice and perspective, I will think about no contact, it's harder with someone so elderly. It was helpful in the past and something my brother is considering. It is all very sad, for my mom as well. It's like the only way she knows how to connect is conflict and chaos is what makes her feel alive.

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