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[quote=Anonymous]I'm in the thick of this right now and this is helpful to read. In laws are 80 and getting older. Our kids are young. Between saving for their college (which we have to do now because DH will be retired by the time they start), saving for our retirement and sending money to in laws, we literally run out of money in our checking account every month. In my opinion, we need help. Specifically, with resolving how much to support in-laws and at what cost to our kids' future. If we stop saving for retirement to support in laws, we just repeat the cycle and our kids will be in the same spot we're in. And over my dead body will I stop saving for college - I'd get a divorce if it comes to that as I know I could support myself and my kids on my own. [/quote]
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