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Reply to "I meet a lot of moms, but no one wants to be my friend"
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You need to invest time before the coffee / drinks date. Join a committee, plan an event with a team, join a running or walking group that meets 1-3x a week. Then give it time. You are coming on too strong / desperate. [b]The women I call friends are all people where I invested 12-20+ hours of face time on a shared project before moving on to personal socialization. [/b] When I lived in Chicago, group guitar lessons at Old Town School of Music were a very popular adult hobby. It seemed like everyone was friends and I felt left out . . . Until half way through my 2nd session. After investing 10+ hours, people started asking me to drinks after class, which class I was signing up for next session, etc. After 3 sessions I started getting invited to birthday parties and weekend events. [/quote] This.[/quote]
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