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[quote=Anonymous]Op it does really sound like this is a reaction to a neighborhood having more poverty. Yes your daughters safety is always #1 but you first should do some serious and I mean serious reflection on what might have given you that feeling because you are sharing quite literally nothing that would indicate concern except it being a rougher area which makes it most likely you’re just not used to being around more poverty? I just personally would want to do a lot of self reflection before I made a firm line on something. As others have said our “intuition” is actually often quite wrong and is more based on preconceived ideas, stereotypes, racism etc. None of these things may be your intent but it’s just how our brain works. It sounds like it took a lot for this family to feel comfortable inviting your daughter (probably for this exact reason..) and I would just try to be thoughtful and a little more objective to figure out what is coming up for you and why. [/quote]
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