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[quote=Anonymous]OP, who makes more money is irrelevant. You say you both work full time - what does that mean? You both work 40 hours a week? You both work 60 hours per week? Or you work 60 and he works 40? If it's the latter - if you're putting in a ton more hours at your job - then it's the ONLY justification that I see that your DH take on more "dirty work" and child care responsibilities. Otherwise, you're not being fair. FWIW, I am the primary breadwinner in my family - make three times as much as DH - but I also have a lot more flexibility at my job and the freedom to work at home three days a week. He has a strictly in-office job from 8 - 6 with a 30 minute commute each way, so he has a lot less time at home than I do. DH and I share child care equally, but I do a lot more of the laundry and daily clean up because I have the extra time that DH doesn't. [/quote]
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