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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Sure, why not be happy for them. How is it affecting you?[/quote]

It affects you because you are very rarely still treated as your parent's child. They are focused on a toddler and you're "all grown up".  Men are not good with this.[/quote]

How does it not:
-additional heirs to your dad's estate, reducing your future share
-future estate also reduced by the education, college and overall cost of those children-- this affects grandchildren too since there will be more of them
-possible total disinheritance if the 2nd wive comes sole heir after he passes
-kids who may have better lives than you ever did bc he is wealthier now and also more available
-reduced loyalty since you are "done"
-dividing up the holidays 
-stigma and reduced ability to attract desirable mate since one's parents are no longer married to each other 
-graduations and weddings become occasions where you have to keep mom and step mom away from each other

It truly sucks.[/quote]

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