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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I am over my 23 y.o. son. He has managed to fail at everything since graduating high school including college. He compulsively lies and was required to enroll in community college in addition to holding a job and paying nominal rent ($150 a month that I am saving in an account). When I asked him the status of the supposed "late starting" spring courses, he lied again about accelerated courses starting in June. I told him hell no, he must enroll now or get out. I am so over him.

I feel trapped with a perpetual 14 y.o. I keep hoping he finds a gf but know that no young woman in her right mind would deal with his immaturity. [/quote]

Why do you think he's struggling? Do you think he likes failing or do you think he has a problem (depression, executive dysfunction, etc) that is holding him back? What kind of student was he in high school? Would he be more interested in trade school than community college?[/quote]

He lies so much that it's hard to get a real idea of what's going on. In addition to the above requirements to continue living with me, I am considering adding therapy. Though I wonder if therapy would be productive given how much he lies. For therapy to be effective, you have to tell the truth.

His grades were up and down in school.[/quote]

It sounds like he lies because he can't meet your expectations and doesn't want to admit it. What support did he get when he was younger?[/quote]

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