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[quote=Anonymous]OP, why on earth are you giving DH a BJ because he spent a few hours caring for HIS OWN CHILD!  That is crazy!   You are rewarding him for needing to be talked into staying in and taking care of the child for a few hours.  Stop it!   Ever heard the saying "you teach people how to treat you"?   DH is going to start expecting "rewards" for doing things which he should be doing as a decent husband and father.

Just because he works during the week and you stay home does not mean that he should be completely hands-off when it comes for caring for his child;  spending time doing things with a child is part of being a good parent.  Maybe you need to remind him of that.

I was a SAHM.  When our DC's were young, my DH would take them out for a few hours on either Saturday or Sunday, not only to give me a break but also to bond with them.  They would usually go to the playground and then to get a treat, and my children (who are now teens) still remember and talk about those special times they shared.

I hope things will improve for you; being a SAHM isn't easy, but it can be very rewarding.

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