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[quote=Anonymous]It jumped out at me that you “had a crush on her for years”. Were you putting your own life on hold just in case she happened to be single?  If so, why? Sad and creepy. Did you pounce the minute you heard she was single? A bit predatory.

I’m not her fan for going on a date if she wasn’t ready (you aren’t sushi, op, and she should know if she wanted to date before going out with you), and I’m less of a fan of her for treating someone she had to know really liked her so shabbily. I don’t like that she canceled what seems like an hour before the date all over an ex, if she had wanted to, she could have said “Hey Bob, I met this great guy, I’m going out with him tonight,”, and she didn’t.

I’m also not sure I like you either.    
Despite what Hollywood would have us believe, it’s not attractive to have the guy who’s been mooning over us start dating us.. it usually means the guy has serious mental health issues.  Fine to get together with a friend if you two both find yourselves single, not fine to half-ass your own life going on dates all while hoping “the one” shows romantic interest.

My hope for you is that you’ll move on from this girl, open your heart and mind to someone who wants to go on a second date with you as badly as you do with her and have a happy life.  My final thought for those of you saying “she’s honest”, we have no way to know that. Whoever wrote the OP knows the audience.. “girls can get away with all kinds of stuff, men cannot”. If This was a woman posting about a guy she’d gone out with, these responses would be completely different.  We’ve all been here long enough to know how this place rolls. 
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