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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]This is really not so hard.  You demonstrate your interest in the other person by doing things that clearly suggest an interest but are plausibly deniable and gradually escalate over time.  Light flirting, more physical contact than normal (such as holding a handshake just a smigden longer than normal, light touching that isn't strictly speaking necessary).  If the person reacts poorly, you just stop, and if called on it you claim a misunderstanding and never do anything like that again.  If the person seems receptive, you are off to the races.  Not that I would ever do this, but practically it is not that hard a problem and if you can't figure it out, you aren't really affair material.  [/quote]

This is true and I think a lot of affairs in the workplace start this way without people realizing they are testing the waters. Call me a cynic, but I do believe not all affairs start because someone wakes up and says, I want to have an affair! I will start today! I think people get in ruts in their marriage, stop communicating effectively, start resenting the spouse, and an opportunity comes up where you start feeling supported/validated by a co-worker of the opposite sex, you guys start spending more time together, and bam, you are doing these thing without realizing it (or realizing it but rationalizing and justifying the hell out of it). Then you either have the beginning of an emotional affair that stays that way or evolves into a physical affair.[/quote]

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