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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I would figure out your boundaries and set them. You can hire a case manager to coordinate all care. They need to agree to this as they will be funding it! I would make sure it's in writing and your brother has to follow through if he is made financial POA.

You can visit to check on things, but nobody but you decides how much you can do.

[b]The job of executor stinks. I would be thrilled to give it to a sibling.[/b] Establish how often he will keep you updated in writing now. He can pay himself a little for his services and honestly anyone who does the job deserves it. I would make sure when the time comes he gives monthly updates or at least every other month.

You do need to sort this out. Not everyone finds that health issues don't kit until later.[/quote]

The kind of people that are trying to take advantage of their siblings don’t care that the job of executor stinks because they’re not doing it properly anyway. They’re not updating the other beneficiaries every month, or even every other month, they’re not keeping good records, they’re not keeping the probate court informed of what they’re doing. They are getting as much as they can from the estate for themselves in such a way that the other beneficiaries won’t be able to track what they’re doing. 
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