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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous] ...Going back I wouldn’t have requested the doctors note but I don’t think it’s a crazy thing to request for any employee. I feel like if the nanny was willing to quit over something so small we have been unknowingly walking on eggshells with her the entire time and didn’t know it. We know she can find a job much easier than we can find a nanny because there are so many families desperate for care. She definitely has always had the upper hand. But now I just deeply regret the nanny share idea as a whole. 9 months of childcare is not worth 3.5 years or friendship. I’m just so sad. [/quote] It's beyond unreasonable for you to ask anyone who is out for 2-5 days for a doctor's note. I would quit too, including at your company. You're treating adults like children, so you're going to lose out on good employees plain and simple. Your friend has a right to be pissed at you, since it sounds like you did it unilaterally. Lesson learned. [/quote]
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