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[quote=Anonymous][quote]Did you discuss the note request with your friend? If you didn’t and you just did it on your own she has every right to be pissed.[/quote] +1 You were not the nannny''s only employer and you had no right to impose such a requirement before discussing it with your former friend. If the nanny has worked for you for 9 months and this is the first time she's missed for illness, I think the request for a doctor's note was a bit much. But if you were her sole employer, it would be your right to do this. But it is definitely not your right to impose such a requirement UNILATERALLY with no discussion with your co-employer. You're at fault. You owe a whopping apology to your friend. I think the least you can do is offer to pay whatever you paid for the nanny share to your friend for 2 weeks after the nanny leaves to help her make alternative arrangements. 4 weeks would be better.[/quote]
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