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Reply to "if you or your spouse cheated- how did you tell the kids?"
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[quote=Anonymous]Our kids were teens. They could tell something was wrong.but not because there was any shouting or anyone moving out. I was in deep pain when I found out and dh was fairly shocked at what he had done. One of them came to us and said we can tell something is wrong but we trust you will handle it and assume you will tell us if it is anything we need to know. We assured them that we would, that relationships are complex and that Mom/Dad are getting help. That was enough for them so they could go back to being high school seniors and a seventh grader which is hard enough when you are a kid without adding parent drama. That was 3.5 years ago and we have stayed married. I do think my husband would have told them with me present if we had separated. He would have told them how wrong he was and how terribly he hurt their mother and the family. He offered to do it but we never have gotten there.[/quote]
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