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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I found out on my own when I was 16. Don't think you can keep it from them-- it only takes one slip-up, and it's very very hard to keep it secret from a suspicious teenager. I don't think kids can always tell, but I do think they sometimes can.

As it happened, I walked in on my mom and her AP when I came home early due to an unexpected soccer cancellation. So there really was no choice but to tell me. I'm not sure I know the whole truth. But it was extremely traumatic for me as a teen because it was abundantly clear from it that my mother had been lying to me about various things. They pressured me to keep it a secret from his kids, one of whom was my close friend.  It really sucked. They're still together, and he's a loser, so it sucks.[/quote]

This is not the first time I have heard of the "adults" making the child go along with the deception.

Beyond selfish and sick.

If you can't look those you love in the fact and admit your actions, THAT MEANS YOU ARE DOING SOMETHING WRONG.

Just own your lack of integrity and what that does to the love and trust people once had for you.

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