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Reply to "if you or your spouse cheated- how did you tell the kids?"
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Oh, this one is easy. You don’t tell them. Next[/quote] Have you been a cheater in the past? This "advice" suggests magical thinking. Like "I just won't get caught" I can have my cake and eat it too. The kids will find out eventually. This is one of many conversations/outcomes that cheaters should imagine, when they follow their lust instead of their marriage vows. Telling all of their relatives in fact. I would not tell a very young child. But teenage or young adults, they have a right to know why their world is being turned upside down. Why their other parent is a basket case. Unfortunately, this usually impacts them negatively for life (with regards to trust), but again...the cheater decided that novel sex trumps their kid's future relationships. Oops.[/quote]
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