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[quote=Anonymous]OP, I have a friend whose husband is probably closeted gay, or at least she is pretty sure and is trying to figure out wht to do. In his case, I think he really loves her and wanted the white picket fence--kids, house, traditional life. The outward signs were that he fit into a lot of steroetypes that on their own dont' add up to "gay" (metrosexual, into fashion, design, hangs out with gay friends a lot without her--these describe a lot of straight guys too) but its been the sense she has of a kind of remoteness in him, a sort of inner privacy/space which she senses is a big inner conflict about that makes her wonder. They have a sexual life, but not a very passionate one....anyway, she is in therapy right now exploring it and has not (yet) approached her husband about it since she needs adjust to the idea as well first and she's not sure what he'll say (he is likely in denial and having relations with men, but she's not sure). Anyway, i don't think there is one way to know for sure, but listen to your gut, maybe explore in therapy and hopefully you'll come to a sense of if/when/how to approach him about it....Of ocurse, if you suspect he is on the down low and having extra-marital relations, then I would tkae another more aggressive approach (but would advise proof first). [/quote]

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