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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Another perspective on therapy... I would put her back into therapy. I would tell the therapist the exact lies that she's telling and see if that can be addressed in therapy. There are going to be a lot of boring, no progress sessions. But the child should know that her BS is being called out. No one believes the lies. She should not discontinue therapy until/unless she starts being real.

I would tell her that she doesn't have to talk to you, but she has to talk to someone. She doesn't have to like that therapist... but she has to continue with someone.
 
I'm sorry but it sounds like your child is in crisis and is lashing out in destructive ways. [/quote]

OP already randomly cancelled therapy because she refused to let her child have privacy (listening through the walls, demanding to be in sessions). OP is the problem here. Child likely has autism or OCD, but in the family dynamic, is the “identified patient.”[/quote]

Wow, wtf.  The kitchen is next to the room that has the computer that she did the Zoom on speaker on. The walls are thin.   I was making dinner. She claimed we never let her go on school field trips.  There were no school field trips since 2019 because of covid. The first opportunity will be this spring. My child knew all of this yet was spinning a yarn making her parents to be the bad guys.  The very young therapist (the only one available in the practice) refused twice to do family therapy whatsoever, so there was no way to explain to the therapist the actual truth. My child has a lying problem, she will lie about anything and everything. You have to see her in action to believe it.    I am sorry, PP, that this situation does not fit your narrative, but this is a problem that her grandparents and two different schools have been witnessing and dealing with as well for the past few years.  This is some specific problem and I am seeking help in the special needs forum while trying to get her in to a different psychology practice.  I am trying to help her,I don't know what is causing this behavior, I am not the "problem".  I was just posting to see what possible diagnoses people could think of, obviously this is not a diagnostic session with professsionals. I wanted to see if other parents had similar experiences and recommendations.   I definitley did not randomly cancel therapy because I refused to let her "have privacy".  My daugher has a lot of privacy.  My other child is on the spectrum, she is not "the identified patient in the family dynamic".  I don't even know what that means.  Very reckless of you to be saying things like that.  Please, if there are no specific suggestions for where to take her or what this sounds like, do not comment like that. [/quote]

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