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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous] Net combined income (after insurance and taxes and retirement contributions): $11,000 Monthly Expenses: Mortgage PITI: $3450 Childcare: $3500 Utilities: average $750 (electric, water, Internet) Phone bills: $150 Insurance/gas/car maintenance: $400 Medication/Therapies/medical costs: $800 Food/toiletries: $1000 This leaves us with less than $900/month to cover things like home maintenance, car repairs, clothes, haircuts, travel, incidentals, kids activities, gifts, savings, and debt payments (we have no debt but mortgage and a 0% credit card that has $12k on it). I’m so frustrated. I feel like we can’t afford so many things I want (a dog, a 2nd car, a vacation, a personal computer, a bike). We have nothing saved for college. We are way behind on retirement. We share one car. We have 2 kids but one of them has significant special needs so our childcare/medical expenses are unlikely to drop dramatically for at least another 3-5 years. Any tips or commiseration? [/quote] You are living above your means and your child care and housing expenses are very high. Same with your utilities. We make far less than you and are comfortable but the big difference is child care and housing. Our mortgage is $1500 less than yours. Our therapy expenses were higher though.[/quote]
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