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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]It blows my mind how many supposedly independent grown-ass people expect the red-carpet treatment on VD and their anniversary, with almost zero reciprocity.  Remember VD in elementary school?  It was not just a one-way street.  The best way to express that the day is important is to treat your partner the way you would like to be treated.  Used to be a popular concept called the Golden Rule.[/quote]

Yeah imagine if two entire days out of 365 people made a really, [i]really[/i] big deal out of the person who will, for example, see them through chemo in my parents case or face tragedy and adversity with them. Literally the most “VIP” in their lives. Sorry you don’t think your partner is worth a red carpet even two days a year, I feel for him or her.[/quote]

My DH is outstanding day in and day out. We don’t do Valentine’s Day because… it…does…not…matter. Show up when it counts, which is daily.[/quote]

Mine is too. “Showing up” daily and doing something special a few times a year are in no way mutually exclusive.[/quote]

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