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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here:

1. I am a straight man
2. No broken family here, parents married 40+ years 
3. It’s not about “newness” it’s that the women I’ve bonded with get comfortable and stop trying to “bring it” like they did when we first started dating. I suppose this is normal, but even if my “bindings goes up and the emotional connection is stronger, it doesn’t mitigate the physical chemistry being meh. [/quote]

You are doing something wrong.

I have girlfriends who will not step out of their bedrooms without looking very good.

Your radar for these kids of women is off. I am not sure how you fix it, but these women are out there. You just haven't met the right one. Keep looking.[/quote]

The ones I’ve had long term relationships with are like that for 6-10months. Then the slow slide to comfort town begins. Meanwhile I keep my routine of hitting the gym, dressing nicely, basically still trying to be the same person who attracted them to begin with. It’s not reciprocated. And same for sexual appeal/availability.[/quote]

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