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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Few men require "hotness" as defined by women. [b]They want someone fit. You are.[/b] They want someone who dresses in a way that indicates openness to their attention. Ditch the turtlenecks unless you are willing to pair them with skirts or fitted jeans. It does not take much to indicate openness - a bright cute top and decent jeans are plenty. Lip gloss is all the makeup you need. Smiling frequently will have a greater impact than any jewelry or heels.[/quote]

This is not a commentary on the OP herself but "fit" and "thin" do not mean the same thing.  OP is obviously thin at 5'4" 110, but she did not say anything that would indicate fitness.  Many thin people are weak and sickly.  I'm not saying OP is, but your use of the word fit is not accurate and it is true that many men prefer fit women, but that means healthy, strong, capable of physical activity, active...it doesn't just mean thin (although many men couldn't care less about fit and just prefer thin also.)[/quote]

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