Reply to My daughter (senior in college) has barely any friends but doesn’t care

Forum Index » Adult Children

Reply to "My daughter (senior in college) has barely any friends but doesn’t care"

Subject:

Emoticons





More smilies

Text Color: Font: Close Marks

[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I find this troubling. She has been “successful” in college—big state flagship—great grades, had internship, has job lined up etc but keeps in touch with 3 people from high school and just has a bunch of acquaintances from college activities that she does not interact with any of them outside of those activities. She lives with basically random roommates every year. She is unbothered by this, but I think it is socially inappropriate. Would this bother you?[/quote]

You have lost your mind.

I went to high school out of state. I didn’t keep up with very many people. As of today, I *truly* keep up with 3 people from HS. I lived with different people every year in college. I only chose my roommate one year - it was the worst year of my college life.

I had friends, but I was basically welcomed into a lovely group of people who already knew each other.

Nearly 25 years later, I am happily married with children, I am STILL choosy about my friends, and live a great social life that is appropriate FOR ME.

Unless you think she is truly mentally unwell, back off. Socially inappropriate in the context you describe is not a thing for adults.[/quote]

Options

	Disable HTML in this message
	Disable BB Code in this message
	Disable smilies in this message

Review message

Search Recent Topics Hottest Topics