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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]People who love music enough to play the guitar well and memorize songs are talented, empathetic, and focused on something more than just the mechanics of life—they either have soul, or at least value soul. Music is art, poetry, connection. People are drawn to all of those things.

He sounds great. You sound pretty boring. And not a little pathetic to be picking apart your own son on the internet. Are you jealous that he’s just getting into the prime of his connections with people who aren’t you and his sexuality? Try therapy to explore what your problem is.[/quote]

This is OP.  WTF.

I don't care about my DS personal life because he is:  1- an adult and 2- it is none of my business.  I do, however, as his father, worry about his future and I am also on the hook for college tuition + room/board.  He is studying Computer Science and he did ok in his first two years and on track to graduate in four years.  He dropped two classes last semester so it is unlikely that he will graduate in May 2024.

I just want him to graduate on time and take care of himself financially with a CS degree.  I don't care what he does with music after that because it is none of my business.[/quote]

Did he choose to study CS or did you choose for him?  Have you asked him what he wants to do/why he's struggling this semester?  That seems way more relevant than his sister's speculations re: guitar playing.[/quote]

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