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[quote=Anonymous] OP, I get that you're grieving the death of the person you thought your DH was. And maybe he actually was that person, then, and maybe that person is still there underneath whatever is going on with him. But framing things as "what did I do wrong" is looking backward and gives you zero momentum to move forward. That is the only direction for you now. Someone else note that you should get therapy ASAP and delve into why you made the choices you made. But you also need to make new choices like whether you are divorcing, whether things are salvageable, what to do re: kids if any, finances, etc. Small steps but clear ones, OP. You tried to identify the right person for you and you may have done a perfect job at that time, so don't waste energy looking backward and asking where you went wrong--you're not the one who cheated or checked out. [/quote]
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