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[quote=Anonymous]Hugs, OP.  Looking at this from the outside, it would appear your mother's behavior is abusive.  Look how it's stuck with, shaped and continues to hurt you.  Her behavior continues to damage you. It's difficult for you to wrap your mind around because you love her and she's had a lifetime to condition you to accept it.

Counseling can really help you overcome this.  It can help you better understand how you were shaped, help you see how warped your self-view is and help you establish boundaries with your mother that promote a healthier you.  If you doubt that you need this, answer the question the PP asked, why haven't you called her out on this?  Why haven't you corrected her fantasy about the club? A 'normal' person would absolutely call her out and correct her.  I also have to ask, even if the club incident were true, who the f@ck recounts that to the person who was rejected?  That's cruel and f@cked up. Your mother is f@cked up and you continue to allow her to do it.

Also, talking daily is overkill.  Making separate calls to each parent on a daily basis is waaaaay overkill.  You're on vacation, tell them you'll speak to the when you get back. [/quote]

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