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Reply to "50/50 is terrible for kids! Why does this nonsense persist?"
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[quote=Anonymous]The ability to self-style custodial outcomes really really depends on the parents. Some parents are able to work something out because they prioritize the needs of the kids. Some parents prioritize themselves. Who was it that said each marriage is its own country? It's very accurate - the personalities, the finances, temperament, collaborativeness, the needs of the children... none of it is prescriptive of the marital institution. That's why if possible, it is usually best for parents, WHO CAN AMICABLY DO SO, to carve out what is best for the children. The courts don't know Larlo and Larla's every personal petty issue and sure as hell don't have time for that so just use the equality format of 50/50 and say "next". If Larlo and Larla can't figure it out, and don't like the court's format, they will spend a pretty penny fighting every stupid little minute of custody.[/quote]
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