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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]After years of trying to get my spouse to participate in a real and satisfying sex life, I outsourced.

I lived with myself by noting that I shouldn't have to lose my kids and finances, and if it ever got discovered, I am in the same place as I would be if we just divorced since we are no-fault.

Is this that hard to understand even if you don't agree with it?[/quote]

I am living this right now. I am the DW in the situation. Just found my husband's third affair. He always wanted more sex than me. after DC1, sex declined of course. while DC was still a baby, i was still nursing, DH started his first affair. Sex declined even further after that. Then some years later, with 2 kids now, the 2nd affair occurred. again, b/c he wants more sex than i give him. so as a result.... our sex life declines even further.  so now we're at affair number 3.

and do the question on the top of the thread, how do you justify it? my DH says what this PP says, and also claims sex addiction.[/quote]

PP, 3rd affair? Why are you staying with him? [/quote]

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